I never imagined that I would be a 
work-at-home mother, but after the birth of my
son in 2004, I knew I could never leave his side. 
My husband instantly felt the same
way and supported my dream of staying home 
with our children. 

I graduated from college the day my son was born, 
so my parentage and my career
began the same day. Since I majored in English, 
my natural choice for at-home work
was writing. Surprisingly, I found it very easy to 
break into the business. If you
can formulate a good cover letter and attractive 
resume, you can get your foot in
the door.

20 months after my writing career began, 
we already had our second child and I now
make over $40K a year. From home. In my 
pajamas. I love it and wouldn't change this
situation for anything in the world. 

If you are interested in becoming a freelance 
writer, these sites were invaluable to
me:

http://www.writersrow.com/deborahng/freelancewritingjobs.html
http://www.wahm.com 
http://aboutfreelancewriting.com/jobs/currentjobs.htm
http://www.freelancewriting.com/

Amy, Arlington, TX

Hi, my name is Heather and I live in Bellflower, Calif. I have been working
at home for 6-1/2 years as an editor. Two and a half years ago I had our son
and then I had a daughter nearly seven months ago.
When I started working from home in 1999, I thought it was only going to be
temporary. My company had just folded abruptly and several people from that
company decided to try their hand at operating a publishing company. They
were only going to publish two magazines to begin with. However, that two
turned into eight within the first six months of publishing. Consequently, I
had to scramble those first few months to get my computer running up to par,
get an office established (I was living and working in one 10'x15' for the
first six months), and learn how to do the job I was doing, since I had
never had that much responsibility in my career. It was a steep learning
curve.
I found it hard to work from home for the first year and a half. Starting up
a new company and working out the bugs of doing so plus the 14-hour days
really were taxing. And not having a computer department to help me with
computer issues meant I had to learn how to solve my own computer problems.
Furthermore, I dealt with loneliness quite a bit. Working from home without
much personal contact took getting used to. My coworker and I, who both
worked from home at the time, found the solitude overwhelming at times and
we would meet for lunch at least once a week just to have some face time
with a friend. But once things were running smoothly and I adjusted to the
change of work environment, working from home became a blessing. I learned
that I didn't have to be at home all the time. As long as I had my cell
phone and I checked my e-mail at least once a day, I could fit work in to my
schedule, rather than fit my schedule around work. I quickly learned to
enjoy the flexibility. I never had a problem with discipline regarding work.
I knew what needed to be done and I did it. I didn't feel compelled to do
other things when I knew it was work time. I subconsciously alloted certain
hours to work and wouldn't deviate from that, sometimes as I said before,
for 14 hours at a stretch, depending on the deadline.
Today, I don't know if I could ever work in an office again. I joke (only
have seriously) that if my company ever folded or laid me off, I would have
to start my own business so I could continue to work from home. Thanks to
the flexibility of the Internet and wireless Internet access and our company
being 100% digital/Internet/e-mail based, I can travel anywhere and still do
my job. This summer I took my two children out of state on a six-week trip
without missing a beat work wise. I just signed up with T-Mobile's wireless
Internet plan (month-to-month) and I would park outside of a Borders store
and get my Internet without having to go inside with the children. They
napped, I read e-mail.
And staying home with my children without daycare is difficult, don't let
anyone say it's not (I work days, nights, weekends, on my husband's days
off, etc), but it's worth every sacrifice I make to hear my son saying new
words daily and watch my baby girl learn to crawl.

Work-At-Home Story #6

Occupation Homemaker
 

Many SAHM (stay-at-home-moms) fall into a rut and feel bored, lonely, and/or insignificant.  Sometimes the fear of these things even keeps women from staying at home in the first place.  Often, the secular world paints a picture of a mom at home as very quaint; not glamorous like a city job, or rewarding like a passionate career, or entertaining like a hustle-bustle working lifestyle; only simplistic and cute.  It doesn’t usually sound very attractive to young women.  If it isn’t these things that deter a family from having mom at home then it’s the lie that they can’t afford life on one income alone.

I personally experienced some confusion when I first got married and began my life at home.  I had the house organized and just as clean as any other house and yet I still felt bored a lot of the time and was somewhat discontented.  It didn’t make sense to me.  I had been an excellent student and an exemplary worker.  Yet, here at home, I was continuously bored which led to feeling lonely.  I kept wondering why I felt that way.

It wasn’t that I didn’t have enough to do. I had two children with one on the way, I was beginning to teach my 4 year old, I helped my husband run his carpentry business from home, I sang on the worship team, taught Children’s church, cooked and cleaned, etc.  So I had plenty to do.

It also wasn’t that I was just unhappy at home, because I wasn’t.  I was thrilled to be able to be at home with my kids when so many others I knew felt that they had to work to support their families.  I was grateful for the time and opportunity to homeschool my kids and really be a helper to my husband.  One day, my mother finally pointed out to me that when I had been in school I was very regimented with my time.  I kept an organized calendar/journal in which I planned and pre-planned the timing of assignments and events and all they entailed.  Then, each day I would see what was in store and complete everything efficiently and often beforehand.  When I worked, I had a clear and concise position and had the mind-set of being good at my job.  I always completed tasks in a timely fashion and with a cheerful demeanor.

It was then that I realized that my attitude towards being at home wasn’t right.  I was being too relaxed.  I was treating my time at home everyday like I had previously done on the weekends when in school or at work.  I decided to treat my life at home with the kids as my new career; with the kids as my subordinates and my husband as my boss.

I immediately got planning.  I got out a new calendar/journal and allotted time for everything I sought to accomplish each day, week, month, etc.  I scheduled everything:  Housework, errands, cooking, schooling the children, special projects, paperwork, shopping....  I even put reminders to give the kids their baths and change the bed sheets and the fish’s water.  I PLANNED EVERYTHING!

Now every morning I wake up with an agenda.   I have the drive of being able to cross off the things on my list each day.  That helps me conquer the feelings of unimportance because I can see on paper that I am getting so much done.

I don’t get terribly stringent on WHEN things get accomplished in the day.  I know that life with small children doesn’t necessarily fit into strict time slots.  And the purpose of the schedule was not to stress me out or rush us all day.  It is a guideline to keep me on track.

I have discovered that I actually have a lot of time to do almost anything I want.  Being at home with the kids is no longer the reason I can’t do the things I desire to do, (read my Bible, pray, exercise, write, etc.) rather, it’s what enables me to do them.  I had completely eliminated the dull gaps in my day where I would just sit and think about how I had “nothing to do”.

This was such a refreshing change that I decided to carry the concept over to other areas of my life.  For example:  I have a calendar on the wall on which I write out all the suppers that I’m going to fix. I spend one afternoon going through my recipe books and cook books and I plan all the suppers out ahead of time.  This way I know in advance that on the nights we go to church we’ll have something quick and easy to fix, and on the nights we have company we’ll have a larger meal, and on Sundays we’ll have a meal in the crock pot so it’s ready when we get home, etc.  As I write out the meals I also begin to make my weekly grocery lists (while I have the recipes handy).  That way I’m sure to have all the ingredients handy for each meal.  Then, before I go shopping, all I have to do is add the items I need for breakfast and lunch throughout the week and whatever baking necessities I’ve run out of.   I even coordinate them with my grocer’s weekly flyers so that I can save us the most money.  (For one of several references regarding this topic, please see Matt. 25:21.)

Doing it this way may sound like an awful lot of work but it actually saves a lot of time and frustration.  I never have to fret over what to fix for supper and I know we’re eating healthy and cost-effectively.  Besides, I really enjoy the planning part. I like to go through my cookbooks and try new things.

I have found that having this well-organized approach to things helps me do my job with ease and efficiency making it easier to be content and cheerful.  It also helps me get the kids involved.  They work with me each day.  In the morning, when they ask what we’re going to do that day all I have to do is check the book and say “Well, it’s dusting day and then we’ll vacuum and clean the basement”, or something to that effect.  We know what we need to do so we’re able to do it with gladness.  And we always make sure to leave plenty of time for romping, reading, catching frogs, and feeding bugs to the chickens, etc (all things three small boys love to do).

So that’s my secret of being a SAHM. I take my “job” seriously.  With all my time and effort I take care of my home.  My “boss” (husband) knows that his best worker (me) is capable and motivated to do the best job each day.  Now, when I fill out forms that ask for occupation I always smile as I proudly pen my title:  Homemaker – for references please see Titus 2:1-5.